Dear Family at that Restaurant in Bronson, Missouri;
You noticed my Dad and his friends, a group of six senior citizens, were ooohing and ahhhing over the honey cornbread muffins. You also noticed my Dad was wearing his veteran hat that showed he served in Korea. You then sent an order of honey cornbread muffins to their table with the following note:
Sir,
It's because of men like you that my family enjoys its freedom today. Thank you for serving our country and God bless.
You brought my Dad to tears that day, and he cried again when he read your note to me over the phone.
Thank YOU, and God bless YOU! And thank you for reminding me that a simple gesture means the world to our senior veterans. I hope I get the opportunity to do the same.
Friday, October 29, 2010
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
A Way with Words
I am beginning to see why Tabitha, my co-worker, is someone whom Kelly loves so much from her years of working for Dr. D. I've decided to compile a list strictly from the words she chooses.
Words Tabitha uses:
This will be easy.
You'll get it.
You'll figure it out.
Keep trying.
That happened to me, too (or) I've done that mistake before.
That looks great!
Nice one!
You're so ready for this!
I can understand how you feel.
Words Tabitha does not use with me:
Forget it.
Never mind.
I'll take care of it.
Give me that!
I also love how she never rescues me from my failures. She's so patient and gives me room to try again, which always results in success, which in turn produces confidence. Instead of making me feel like I have just ruined everything and the world is going to end, she actually laughs out loud! I don't feel like she's laughing at me, rather she's laughing because her same struggles are now happening to me and she can so relate.
What a woman!
Words Tabitha uses:
This will be easy.
You'll get it.
You'll figure it out.
Keep trying.
That happened to me, too (or) I've done that mistake before.
That looks great!
Nice one!
You're so ready for this!
I can understand how you feel.
Words Tabitha does not use with me:
Forget it.
Never mind.
I'll take care of it.
Give me that!
I also love how she never rescues me from my failures. She's so patient and gives me room to try again, which always results in success, which in turn produces confidence. Instead of making me feel like I have just ruined everything and the world is going to end, she actually laughs out loud! I don't feel like she's laughing at me, rather she's laughing because her same struggles are now happening to me and she can so relate.
What a woman!
Friday, October 22, 2010
Why Don't She Write?
Kudos to anyone who can name that movie, though it's not an exact quote!
Things are crazy here. On one hand I have blessings galore with how well my children are doing. On the other hand, I have trials and I'm so busy. I'm afraid if I were to write what I was really thinking, I'd be carried off to the asylum!
Wait. . . a room to myself without interruption? Hmmm. . . .
Last weekend I was so angry at everyone and everything. It was probably best that Himself went out of town for a few days. I'm feeling much better now. How does the Jimmy Buffett song go? "The longer I'm gone, the closer I feel to you."
Ty and Jessie brought home all kinds of pumpkins last night! Two big ones are for carving on Monday with their Bible study group. The wee ones were for painting. I hope she posts pictures! =)
Things are crazy here. On one hand I have blessings galore with how well my children are doing. On the other hand, I have trials and I'm so busy. I'm afraid if I were to write what I was really thinking, I'd be carried off to the asylum!
Wait. . . a room to myself without interruption? Hmmm. . . .
Last weekend I was so angry at everyone and everything. It was probably best that Himself went out of town for a few days. I'm feeling much better now. How does the Jimmy Buffett song go? "The longer I'm gone, the closer I feel to you."
Ty and Jessie brought home all kinds of pumpkins last night! Two big ones are for carving on Monday with their Bible study group. The wee ones were for painting. I hope she posts pictures! =)
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Workin' It
It's no lie; I am a sinner in need of a Savior.
Himself - even more so.
The last two days I have enjoyed washing dishes, by hand, with Glenna. We put music on and we have the best conversations! Or, sometimes, we just do the dishes in companionable silence. I never thought this would be a chore that I would actually look forward to doing, but it has been most pleasant.
When I first married Himself, as in our first few days in our first apartment, I struggled to figure out that whole cooking thing. My job as a child/teen was to set the table and make the salad. I still make a pretty mean salad! My mother knew I needed help in the kitchen and ordered recipe cards that came by mail every month. I started our married life learning to cook from those cards, which involved fresh ingredients and nothing processed. A few months into our marriage I discovered Hamburger Helper and brought it home - Himself made it clear that under no uncertain terms was I to ever bring it home again. Who could blame him after such fresh, real food?
The only meal I didn't make from the cards was steak cooked on the hibachi, with red potatoes cooked with fresh green beans and tossed in butter. Oh, and a salad. It's still a favorite.
After dinner, Himself would settle comfortably on the couch. I would look at him peering into our 13" TV, look at the kitchen full of dishes, look back at him, shrug my shoulders, and then settle onto the couch next to him.
If he thought I was going to wash those dishes myself, he had another think coming!
The dishes would sit on the counter for a day, or two, or three, until we didn't have any that were clean. Then one of us would grudgingly wash them or, rarely, we would wash them together.
Yes, our apartment had roaches. Why do you ask?
This pattern continued even after we bought our first house. Many times, too many times, I avoided the kitchen all together and we ate out. It also bled into other areas of our lives and home to laundry, cleaning, yard work, and maintenance.
When the children began to arrive and I realized, with great shock, that I had to cook every night, the battle over KP escalated. At this point, we had a dishwasher. Still, I would cook dinner and then Himself would settle on the couch and start a movie.
Yes. Start a movie.
We laugh when we talk about this now. He can't believe what a self-centered person he was then! I can't believe how determined I was to not be the only one doing house work. Stubborn and stiff-necked described me to a T.
If there's one piece of married advice I could offer to newlyweds, it would be this:
Wash the dishes together.
It's a great relationship builder, resentment destroyer, and conversation enjoyer.
Imagine if we had started our marriage as teammates, rather than combatants? We would have started a habit that would have benefited our marriage and family tremendously. Now, we have to struggle against our pre-made habits and plain ole sin natures to help each other out. We're getting better, but how amazing is it to see families who do this automatically? After supper, everyone clears the table. One washes, one dries, one wipes the counter tops and table, and before they know it they're finished and the entire evening is before them!
I cringe when I think of the resentment I've built into my children by making them do this without my help while I've watched television or surfed the internet.
In fact, I know exactly how they feel.
Himself - even more so.
The last two days I have enjoyed washing dishes, by hand, with Glenna. We put music on and we have the best conversations! Or, sometimes, we just do the dishes in companionable silence. I never thought this would be a chore that I would actually look forward to doing, but it has been most pleasant.
When I first married Himself, as in our first few days in our first apartment, I struggled to figure out that whole cooking thing. My job as a child/teen was to set the table and make the salad. I still make a pretty mean salad! My mother knew I needed help in the kitchen and ordered recipe cards that came by mail every month. I started our married life learning to cook from those cards, which involved fresh ingredients and nothing processed. A few months into our marriage I discovered Hamburger Helper and brought it home - Himself made it clear that under no uncertain terms was I to ever bring it home again. Who could blame him after such fresh, real food?
The only meal I didn't make from the cards was steak cooked on the hibachi, with red potatoes cooked with fresh green beans and tossed in butter. Oh, and a salad. It's still a favorite.
After dinner, Himself would settle comfortably on the couch. I would look at him peering into our 13" TV, look at the kitchen full of dishes, look back at him, shrug my shoulders, and then settle onto the couch next to him.
If he thought I was going to wash those dishes myself, he had another think coming!
The dishes would sit on the counter for a day, or two, or three, until we didn't have any that were clean. Then one of us would grudgingly wash them or, rarely, we would wash them together.
Yes, our apartment had roaches. Why do you ask?
This pattern continued even after we bought our first house. Many times, too many times, I avoided the kitchen all together and we ate out. It also bled into other areas of our lives and home to laundry, cleaning, yard work, and maintenance.
When the children began to arrive and I realized, with great shock, that I had to cook every night, the battle over KP escalated. At this point, we had a dishwasher. Still, I would cook dinner and then Himself would settle on the couch and start a movie.
Yes. Start a movie.
We laugh when we talk about this now. He can't believe what a self-centered person he was then! I can't believe how determined I was to not be the only one doing house work. Stubborn and stiff-necked described me to a T.
If there's one piece of married advice I could offer to newlyweds, it would be this:
Wash the dishes together.
It's a great relationship builder, resentment destroyer, and conversation enjoyer.
Imagine if we had started our marriage as teammates, rather than combatants? We would have started a habit that would have benefited our marriage and family tremendously. Now, we have to struggle against our pre-made habits and plain ole sin natures to help each other out. We're getting better, but how amazing is it to see families who do this automatically? After supper, everyone clears the table. One washes, one dries, one wipes the counter tops and table, and before they know it they're finished and the entire evening is before them!
I cringe when I think of the resentment I've built into my children by making them do this without my help while I've watched television or surfed the internet.
In fact, I know exactly how they feel.
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
One Hour
In one hour I received the following news . . .
*A dear friend's son was in an accident. His car was stopped on the side of the road, hit, and flipped completely over. Praising God the CAT scan showed all is well and he's already released from the hospital!
*Another dear friend and mentor heard the news today that she has breast cancer.
*Yet another dear friend is on her way to the hospital because her mother just broke her hip.
How fragile we are! Each of these have reminded me to be thankful for every breath and every day.
PS Please don't be afraid to be my dear friend.
*A dear friend's son was in an accident. His car was stopped on the side of the road, hit, and flipped completely over. Praising God the CAT scan showed all is well and he's already released from the hospital!
*Another dear friend and mentor heard the news today that she has breast cancer.
*Yet another dear friend is on her way to the hospital because her mother just broke her hip.
How fragile we are! Each of these have reminded me to be thankful for every breath and every day.
PS Please don't be afraid to be my dear friend.
Friday, October 08, 2010
Later, Dudes
Since our son is now home from the hills of Tennessee, we have decided to make a trip.
To Tennessee.
Ridiculous, right?
My dear friends ML and BA bought property there a couple of years ago, moved there a year ago, and now the house they're building is nearing completion. We wanna see! I've also been longing to see some genuine fall colors.
If you don't hear from me, that is why.
PS Ty has made it clear he has no desire to drive to TN with us. I wonder why? ;-) He'll be staying home and tending the d-o-g-s.
To Tennessee.
Ridiculous, right?
My dear friends ML and BA bought property there a couple of years ago, moved there a year ago, and now the house they're building is nearing completion. We wanna see! I've also been longing to see some genuine fall colors.
If you don't hear from me, that is why.
PS Ty has made it clear he has no desire to drive to TN with us. I wonder why? ;-) He'll be staying home and tending the d-o-g-s.
Thursday, October 07, 2010
The More Things Change, The More They Stay the Same
From February, 1986, to March, 1989, I worked in a hair salon. I dealt closely with the personal appearances of customers. I listened to their joys and their woes. I loved some and avoided others.
Then one glorious day in April, 1989, a baby boy was placed into my arms.
I went home and stayed there!
Now, 21 years later, I once again find myself in a position where I am dealing closely with customers, although now they're called "patients." I don't yet deal directly with their personal appearances, but I may some day. At the office, we listen to their joys and their woes. We love some and try to avoid others. (NO! Not really! You're all our favorites. YES! We LOVE when you come in!)
There are so many similarities to my previous occupation that it's uncanny. Some of the chemicals and substances used on teeth, believe it or not, are the same ones I used when making acrylic nails. They definitely have the same smell!
One thing that absolutely has NOT changed in 21 years is something that can be a source of fun or pain for me, depending on the situation.
I am writing, of course, about the music that plays over the speakers in the office.
I am a musician. Music is never, ever, background music for me. If it's on I have trouble focusing on conversations. Instead, I'll be listening for the spot where the vocals turn to harmony, my favorite line of a song, or that cool bass line that I know is coming up. My friend Diral was the same way - so much so that he would purposely make sure music was OFF when guests were visiting. "If we're going to talk, let's talk. If we're going to listen to music, let's listen to music." I thought this was so strange back then, but I fully appreciate it now!
The music at the office is delivered regularly via the U.S. Postal service in the form of two CDs. We upload them into two different players; one is for the speakers that everyone hears, and one is for patients to select for their headphones while a procedure is done.
When I was working in a salon 21 years ago, the music we listened to was, of course, 80's pop. Sometimes there'd be some songs from the 60's and 70's, depending on the radio station or whether the boss was in the shop.
At the office, SURPRISE! The music is a blend from the 60's, 70's, 80's, and even some 90's. Every once in a while, there will be current pop as well. All of this tends to make me feel like I'm in a time warp or experiencing severe de'ja'vu.
"Wait. Are you here for a spiral perm or a dental cleaning?"
And have you noticed that leggings, scrunch socks, stripes, and sweater dresses are coming back?
The world is going through an awful lot of trouble to make me feel like I've never left the work force.
Then one glorious day in April, 1989, a baby boy was placed into my arms.
I went home and stayed there!
Now, 21 years later, I once again find myself in a position where I am dealing closely with customers, although now they're called "patients." I don't yet deal directly with their personal appearances, but I may some day. At the office, we listen to their joys and their woes. We love some and try to avoid others. (NO! Not really! You're all our favorites. YES! We LOVE when you come in!)
There are so many similarities to my previous occupation that it's uncanny. Some of the chemicals and substances used on teeth, believe it or not, are the same ones I used when making acrylic nails. They definitely have the same smell!
One thing that absolutely has NOT changed in 21 years is something that can be a source of fun or pain for me, depending on the situation.
I am writing, of course, about the music that plays over the speakers in the office.
I am a musician. Music is never, ever, background music for me. If it's on I have trouble focusing on conversations. Instead, I'll be listening for the spot where the vocals turn to harmony, my favorite line of a song, or that cool bass line that I know is coming up. My friend Diral was the same way - so much so that he would purposely make sure music was OFF when guests were visiting. "If we're going to talk, let's talk. If we're going to listen to music, let's listen to music." I thought this was so strange back then, but I fully appreciate it now!
The music at the office is delivered regularly via the U.S. Postal service in the form of two CDs. We upload them into two different players; one is for the speakers that everyone hears, and one is for patients to select for their headphones while a procedure is done.
When I was working in a salon 21 years ago, the music we listened to was, of course, 80's pop. Sometimes there'd be some songs from the 60's and 70's, depending on the radio station or whether the boss was in the shop.
At the office, SURPRISE! The music is a blend from the 60's, 70's, 80's, and even some 90's. Every once in a while, there will be current pop as well. All of this tends to make me feel like I'm in a time warp or experiencing severe de'ja'vu.
"Wait. Are you here for a spiral perm or a dental cleaning?"
And have you noticed that leggings, scrunch socks, stripes, and sweater dresses are coming back?
The world is going through an awful lot of trouble to make me feel like I've never left the work force.
Wednesday, October 06, 2010
Don't Get Cocky!
It. Never. Fails.
As soon as I feel like I know what I'm doing, something happens to show that I need to be alert at all times.
On Space Mountain, I would have days where I finally felt comfortable with all the buttons, guests, and procedures. I was able to have instinct and anticipate needed actions - it was such a great feeling! I would even say to myself, "All right! I'm not a rookie anymore!"
Then I'd do something stupid like . . . oh. . . cascade the ride.
Monday at the office, I was finally feeling great about making a dental mold. I have to use two different materials; one sets rather quickly and needs to be shaped rapidly, while the other sets more slowly and I have a little more time. The mold I was working on was turning out to be the best one I had made!
I went to add the finishing touch of polishing with sand paper and SNAP! The whole thing broke right in the sink.
Tabitha, the one who had been training me, laughed and told me to crazy glue it.
Lesson learned? I thought I had done everything correctly, so what exactly is the lesson?
Umm. . . . don't trust a mold?
Expect the unexpected?
Teeth are gross?
As soon as I feel like I know what I'm doing, something happens to show that I need to be alert at all times.
On Space Mountain, I would have days where I finally felt comfortable with all the buttons, guests, and procedures. I was able to have instinct and anticipate needed actions - it was such a great feeling! I would even say to myself, "All right! I'm not a rookie anymore!"
Then I'd do something stupid like . . . oh. . . cascade the ride.
Monday at the office, I was finally feeling great about making a dental mold. I have to use two different materials; one sets rather quickly and needs to be shaped rapidly, while the other sets more slowly and I have a little more time. The mold I was working on was turning out to be the best one I had made!
I went to add the finishing touch of polishing with sand paper and SNAP! The whole thing broke right in the sink.
Tabitha, the one who had been training me, laughed and told me to crazy glue it.
Lesson learned? I thought I had done everything correctly, so what exactly is the lesson?
Umm. . . . don't trust a mold?
Expect the unexpected?
Teeth are gross?
Tuesday, October 05, 2010
Tuesday is Guest Star Day!
My friend Matt (Es-Snyder!) included this amazing and excellent quote on his blog.
What a timely reminder, and probably one of the biggest truths I learned while working at Disney!
God Loves. Period.
What a timely reminder, and probably one of the biggest truths I learned while working at Disney!
God Loves. Period.
Sunday, October 03, 2010
Pass the Grace, Please
I think the hardest part about spiritual growth or having to face a trial has got to be the fact that life doesn't stop during the process. Wounded, we walk through the routine of our days with smiles on our faces. We make conversations and jokes and perform menial tasks. We wash laundry and write thank you notes. We pay our bills and put petrol in our autos.
If we had a choice, however, we would do none of those things. Instead, we'd scream out to the heavens in our anger and pain. We'd run to our mothers for her embrace and comfort. We'd lock ourselves in our rooms so we could cry and cry and let healing begin. We would rage against those who have hurt us and get some justice. What we crave more than anything, really is just a little stinkin' privacy.
Those actions, however, don't put dinner on the table.
Those actions are more likely to make others into the walking wounded as well.
If there's one thing a trial teaches me, it's how to extend grace to others. The people I come across may have gaping wounds in their hearts that have absolutely nothing to do with me. They may snap in irritation over some delay. They may honk their horns with impatience the moment a light turns green, not even giving me opportunity to move my foot from brake to gas pedal. Or, reversely, they may be the ones sitting idle, not realizing the light has changed, completely miserable.
Because we are a selfish people, we cannot help but take the actions of others as a personal affront. Our instinct is to go on the defensive and lash back by reacting to the irritated, honking our horns in return, or shouting a loud, "GO already! Sheesh!" This, of course, compounds the misery of the hurting.
At Disney, there are buttons guests can wear to announce a celebration such as a birthday, anniversary, or engagement. Cast members watch for these buttons to call out special messages to the guests. Happy birthday! Congratulations! We're glad you're here! The guests can't help but smile and brighten with each greeting.
What if the walking wounded were allowed to wear buttons?
I'm hurting.
I just lost a loved one.
My world is crashing around me.
My marriage is suffering.
I'm struggling financially and overwhelmed.
I have a horrible illness.
What if others could really see their pain and call out special messages to them? Or what if, simply, we could see their button just long enough to extend a little compassion and a lot of grace?
Go ahead and honk, Lady. I see you're hurting and I don't mind.
Hope you feel better soon!
I'm praying for you.
The truth is, everyone has a button of some kind, but they're invisible. I know this because God's Word says the one thing we're guaranteed is trials.
"Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you experience various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing." James 1:2-4
This week, I hope to become less aware of my own trials and more aware of those around me. I wonder how many opportunities God will give me to extend grace?
PS Mom, wish I could be with you today. I'm thinking of you and I love you.
If we had a choice, however, we would do none of those things. Instead, we'd scream out to the heavens in our anger and pain. We'd run to our mothers for her embrace and comfort. We'd lock ourselves in our rooms so we could cry and cry and let healing begin. We would rage against those who have hurt us and get some justice. What we crave more than anything, really is just a little stinkin' privacy.
Those actions, however, don't put dinner on the table.
Those actions are more likely to make others into the walking wounded as well.
If there's one thing a trial teaches me, it's how to extend grace to others. The people I come across may have gaping wounds in their hearts that have absolutely nothing to do with me. They may snap in irritation over some delay. They may honk their horns with impatience the moment a light turns green, not even giving me opportunity to move my foot from brake to gas pedal. Or, reversely, they may be the ones sitting idle, not realizing the light has changed, completely miserable.
Because we are a selfish people, we cannot help but take the actions of others as a personal affront. Our instinct is to go on the defensive and lash back by reacting to the irritated, honking our horns in return, or shouting a loud, "GO already! Sheesh!" This, of course, compounds the misery of the hurting.
At Disney, there are buttons guests can wear to announce a celebration such as a birthday, anniversary, or engagement. Cast members watch for these buttons to call out special messages to the guests. Happy birthday! Congratulations! We're glad you're here! The guests can't help but smile and brighten with each greeting.
What if the walking wounded were allowed to wear buttons?
I'm hurting.
I just lost a loved one.
My world is crashing around me.
My marriage is suffering.
I'm struggling financially and overwhelmed.
I have a horrible illness.
What if others could really see their pain and call out special messages to them? Or what if, simply, we could see their button just long enough to extend a little compassion and a lot of grace?
Go ahead and honk, Lady. I see you're hurting and I don't mind.
Hope you feel better soon!
I'm praying for you.
The truth is, everyone has a button of some kind, but they're invisible. I know this because God's Word says the one thing we're guaranteed is trials.
"Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you experience various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing." James 1:2-4
This week, I hope to become less aware of my own trials and more aware of those around me. I wonder how many opportunities God will give me to extend grace?
PS Mom, wish I could be with you today. I'm thinking of you and I love you.
Friday, October 01, 2010
A Message
Dear Girl on the Yellow Vespa,
There are two things that will not encourage longevity in this world:
1. Tailgating
2. Not wearing a helmet
Weaving in and out of traffic isn't such a good idea either. Was there really such a hurry that you couldn't plan ahead before darting across three lanes to turn into the college parking lot?
That is all.
PS - Nice shades.
There are two things that will not encourage longevity in this world:
1. Tailgating
2. Not wearing a helmet
Weaving in and out of traffic isn't such a good idea either. Was there really such a hurry that you couldn't plan ahead before darting across three lanes to turn into the college parking lot?
That is all.
PS - Nice shades.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
An Observation
At my new job, I've been learning a million and forty new things at once. It's exciting and challenging and I'm completely unqualified! I'm so thankful for my last 12 years of home schooling or I would feel like a complete idiot.
Dentistry is so interesting when I really get down to the nitty-gritty. I've had so many proceedures done on my own teeth that I almost know the steps and can follow along.
Oh. So that's what that was that made my head buzz like I just put it on a belt sander!
The team at the office do everything they can to make a patient feel welcomed and relaxed. Let's face it - there are those who are pretty nervous when it comes to dentistry. There's even people in my own house who feel this way.
Sometimes, patients will be given nitrous oxide to help calm their nerves before a shot or a proceedure. In fact, there's someone in my own house who requests this each time, though I won't give out any names.
The observation I've made on the nitrous oxide is pretty astute. The only people I've seen request it, so far,
are grown men.
Dentistry is so interesting when I really get down to the nitty-gritty. I've had so many proceedures done on my own teeth that I almost know the steps and can follow along.
Oh. So that's what that was that made my head buzz like I just put it on a belt sander!
The team at the office do everything they can to make a patient feel welcomed and relaxed. Let's face it - there are those who are pretty nervous when it comes to dentistry. There's even people in my own house who feel this way.
Sometimes, patients will be given nitrous oxide to help calm their nerves before a shot or a proceedure. In fact, there's someone in my own house who requests this each time, though I won't give out any names.
The observation I've made on the nitrous oxide is pretty astute. The only people I've seen request it, so far,
are grown men.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
A Great Day
Ok, I can't say that I'm standing in a hole this time because we're on pavement.
Darcy really is that tall! I've always been the short one.
I've had such a great time reconnecting with her! We've scored an invitation to her home in CO and I hope to go there some day. Her husband, Mike, would like some ski partners and I feel up to the task!
Ty and I met them at Epcot, went on Soarin'and Test Track with them, then left them to their Epcot adventure. We then headed to Hollywood because I wanted him to experience Rockin' rollercoaster and he convinced me to ride Tower of Terror. I'm so glad he did!
When we were approaching Tower of Terror, I was saying that I didn't trust the ride to be safe.
"Ok, Mom. We're both going to practice trust here. You're going to trust that theme parks make safe rides, and I'm going to trust that I'll get a phone call with a job offer today."
I didn't die on the ride.
He got a phone call on the way home with the job offer.
Then Himself brought Kelly and a girl from her unit, Abby, home for the weekend.
What a great birthday!
Darcy really is that tall! I've always been the short one.
I've had such a great time reconnecting with her! We've scored an invitation to her home in CO and I hope to go there some day. Her husband, Mike, would like some ski partners and I feel up to the task!
Ty and I met them at Epcot, went on Soarin'and Test Track with them, then left them to their Epcot adventure. We then headed to Hollywood because I wanted him to experience Rockin' rollercoaster and he convinced me to ride Tower of Terror. I'm so glad he did!
When we were approaching Tower of Terror, I was saying that I didn't trust the ride to be safe.
"Ok, Mom. We're both going to practice trust here. You're going to trust that theme parks make safe rides, and I'm going to trust that I'll get a phone call with a job offer today."
I didn't die on the ride.
He got a phone call on the way home with the job offer.
Then Himself brought Kelly and a girl from her unit, Abby, home for the weekend.
What a great birthday!
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Hey Mom! Look!
It's Darcy!
I think I may be standing in a hole here. I also have an iced tea stain on my shirt because she made me laugh so hard I spewed the tea!
We had a great visit, and I talked her and her husband Mike into going to Epcot tomorrow.
Then I talked Tyler into coming with us. I had to pull the "It's My Birthday" card to do it.
He won't let me get a birthday button.
And we have to leave by 1:00 to make it back for my 2:30 American Literature class. But it will be fun!
I think I may be standing in a hole here. I also have an iced tea stain on my shirt because she made me laugh so hard I spewed the tea!
We had a great visit, and I talked her and her husband Mike into going to Epcot tomorrow.
Then I talked Tyler into coming with us. I had to pull the "It's My Birthday" card to do it.
He won't let me get a birthday button.
And we have to leave by 1:00 to make it back for my 2:30 American Literature class. But it will be fun!
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Beachward Bound!
Himself may be glad to know he's probably not the one who wakes me at 4:00 am.
Can't blame a guy who's stuck in Miami.
Tonight, I'll be heading off to an interesting adventure. I'm driving to Daytona to meet an old friend and her husband!
For protection, I'm bringing Glenna.
Darcy was the first girl I met when we moved to San Marcos, back when I was entering the 3rd grade. I was exploring my new neighborhood and she came out of her house and invited me to roller skate with her on the sidewalk (she had a sidewalk, I didn't). When her family moved onto the property of her grandparents, which was connected to our property, we were practically inseparable for the next 6 years. I even joined her family on vacations to Mexico!
Anyway, because we were friends for so long at such a young age, she is naturally part of several childhood hangups I have such as not liking it when people put their feet on me.
Darcy and I never wore shoes. This means that our feet were always very, very dirty. We would sit and watch TV and Darcy would start pushing on my leg (white pants!) with her dirty feet. I was constantly trying to brush the dirt off my leg and she would laugh and laugh! I couldn't stand for people to have their feet near me until I had children, because baby feet are just precious. (Still, I would make sure they were very, very clean first!)
Root beer. It took me years to be able to drink the stuff again. Whenever we went anywhere with Darcy's mother, she would ask her if we could share a soda. Darcy always insisted on root beer, so I had to go through this rebellious stage where I would refuse anything rootbeerish. Did I mention how young I was when I met her?
Anyway, as I said, I'm driving to Daytona to meet her and her husband. It will be interesting to see what has changed and what remains the same, like her voice. She left a message on my voice mail and I about flipped! Darcy was on the phone! It was the exact same voice from my childhood. It made me want to change out of white pants and order a 7-up.
Can't blame a guy who's stuck in Miami.
Tonight, I'll be heading off to an interesting adventure. I'm driving to Daytona to meet an old friend and her husband!
For protection, I'm bringing Glenna.
Darcy was the first girl I met when we moved to San Marcos, back when I was entering the 3rd grade. I was exploring my new neighborhood and she came out of her house and invited me to roller skate with her on the sidewalk (she had a sidewalk, I didn't). When her family moved onto the property of her grandparents, which was connected to our property, we were practically inseparable for the next 6 years. I even joined her family on vacations to Mexico!
Anyway, because we were friends for so long at such a young age, she is naturally part of several childhood hangups I have such as not liking it when people put their feet on me.
Darcy and I never wore shoes. This means that our feet were always very, very dirty. We would sit and watch TV and Darcy would start pushing on my leg (white pants!) with her dirty feet. I was constantly trying to brush the dirt off my leg and she would laugh and laugh! I couldn't stand for people to have their feet near me until I had children, because baby feet are just precious. (Still, I would make sure they were very, very clean first!)
Root beer. It took me years to be able to drink the stuff again. Whenever we went anywhere with Darcy's mother, she would ask her if we could share a soda. Darcy always insisted on root beer, so I had to go through this rebellious stage where I would refuse anything rootbeerish. Did I mention how young I was when I met her?
Anyway, as I said, I'm driving to Daytona to meet her and her husband. It will be interesting to see what has changed and what remains the same, like her voice. She left a message on my voice mail and I about flipped! Darcy was on the phone! It was the exact same voice from my childhood. It made me want to change out of white pants and order a 7-up.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
From Ordinary to Extraordinary
Friday night, Himself had gone to the movie store while Glenna and I finished the dinner dishes. Our agenda that evening was to wash the dogs. Tyler had driven to visit Kelly and we weren't sure what time he was going to be back.
Chatting and singing during this chore, we suddenly realized we were hearing Ty at the door. We had to replace the knob and lock a few months ago and I still needed to make him a key. Glenna went over to let him in.
"You're back!" I heard her say.
"Yep!"
Glenna came back into the kitchen and said, "Your son is home." (Perhaps she got her conversational skills from me; Obvious Mom.)I heard him come in but looking around, I didn't see him yet.
"Oh is he? Well, I don't see my son."
I looked to my right and suddenly, my world exploded. Peering around the corner was not the face of my son, but the beautiful face of my Kelly!
I screamed and ran to her and couldn't stop crying and hugging her. They decided to surprise me! I don't know why I didn't think of her just coming home for the weekend, but you could have knocked me over with a feather.
Hugs went to Glenna and then I opened my arms as wide as I could. My children came to me and I was holding all three at once, laughing and crying and thanking God. OH, did anything ever feel so good?
We had to wait for Himself to get home and then the surprise happened all over again. The five of us sat in the living room and talked and talked until Himself turned into a pumpkinhead and went to bed.
I went upstairs to make sure Kelly had everything she needed. The sight was so beautiful - Glenna sitting on her sister's bed and the two of them chatting together while listening to music. Tyler was in his room playing with one of the balloons we had used to decorate his room (he was trying to keep it off the floor by bouncing it with his head). All three turned to me and smiled at my happiness.
How does one adequately thank God for a moment like that?
Chatting and singing during this chore, we suddenly realized we were hearing Ty at the door. We had to replace the knob and lock a few months ago and I still needed to make him a key. Glenna went over to let him in.
"You're back!" I heard her say.
"Yep!"
Glenna came back into the kitchen and said, "Your son is home." (Perhaps she got her conversational skills from me; Obvious Mom.)I heard him come in but looking around, I didn't see him yet.
"Oh is he? Well, I don't see my son."
I looked to my right and suddenly, my world exploded. Peering around the corner was not the face of my son, but the beautiful face of my Kelly!
I screamed and ran to her and couldn't stop crying and hugging her. They decided to surprise me! I don't know why I didn't think of her just coming home for the weekend, but you could have knocked me over with a feather.
Hugs went to Glenna and then I opened my arms as wide as I could. My children came to me and I was holding all three at once, laughing and crying and thanking God. OH, did anything ever feel so good?
We had to wait for Himself to get home and then the surprise happened all over again. The five of us sat in the living room and talked and talked until Himself turned into a pumpkinhead and went to bed.
I went upstairs to make sure Kelly had everything she needed. The sight was so beautiful - Glenna sitting on her sister's bed and the two of them chatting together while listening to music. Tyler was in his room playing with one of the balloons we had used to decorate his room (he was trying to keep it off the floor by bouncing it with his head). All three turned to me and smiled at my happiness.
How does one adequately thank God for a moment like that?
Friday, September 17, 2010
Eggs and the Devil
I know we're not supposed to compare ourselves to others. I know that each of us are in a different place in our spiritual walk.
I know this.
There's one woman at church who has my complete envy.
I'm not even sure, exactly, what her name is. I have my suspicions, but it's still kind of a mystery. Whoever she is, there's a skill she possesses that I simply cannot duplicate.
She makes absolutely perfect deviled eggs.
Everything about them is symmetry exemplified. They're perfectly shaped, perfectly filled, perfectly clean, and perfectly sprinkled with paprika. The yolk mixture is a lovely, bright yellow without a hint of grayishness that I've seen in my own eggs.
Most church covered dish suppers will have a plate of them and I always take more than one. Himself will only eat eggs scrambled (or hidden in foods, like cake) so it's a rare treat for me to get deviled eggs.
It's especially rare to eat deviled eggs so beautiful.
Today, since I had a plethora of eggs from my friend Mr. G, I decided to make both deviled eggs and egg salad. Himself has been traveling quite a bit and I wasn't worried about him in the house and having to watch the process.
I tried.
I really, really tried.
Deviled eggs are so labor intesive that it really hurts when they come out wrong. I tried to do everything I remembered from my Mom's deviled eggs and thought I was doing pretty well. I peeled and washed the eggs. I put the yolks in a bowl and rinsed the whites. I added mayo and dill pickle relish. I took a taste.
What I had was egg flavored mayo.
Way too much mayo.
I mean, YUCK.
I determined to keep going with the egg salad.
No celery.
I had a productive day regardless. After all, I am in a different place than Perfect Deviled Egg Woman.
That's just where I'm supposed to be right now.
I know this.
There's one woman at church who has my complete envy.
I'm not even sure, exactly, what her name is. I have my suspicions, but it's still kind of a mystery. Whoever she is, there's a skill she possesses that I simply cannot duplicate.
She makes absolutely perfect deviled eggs.
Everything about them is symmetry exemplified. They're perfectly shaped, perfectly filled, perfectly clean, and perfectly sprinkled with paprika. The yolk mixture is a lovely, bright yellow without a hint of grayishness that I've seen in my own eggs.
Most church covered dish suppers will have a plate of them and I always take more than one. Himself will only eat eggs scrambled (or hidden in foods, like cake) so it's a rare treat for me to get deviled eggs.
It's especially rare to eat deviled eggs so beautiful.
Today, since I had a plethora of eggs from my friend Mr. G, I decided to make both deviled eggs and egg salad. Himself has been traveling quite a bit and I wasn't worried about him in the house and having to watch the process.
I tried.
I really, really tried.
Deviled eggs are so labor intesive that it really hurts when they come out wrong. I tried to do everything I remembered from my Mom's deviled eggs and thought I was doing pretty well. I peeled and washed the eggs. I put the yolks in a bowl and rinsed the whites. I added mayo and dill pickle relish. I took a taste.
What I had was egg flavored mayo.
Way too much mayo.
I mean, YUCK.
I determined to keep going with the egg salad.
No celery.
I had a productive day regardless. After all, I am in a different place than Perfect Deviled Egg Woman.
That's just where I'm supposed to be right now.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Home!
The Countdown Ticker is completed and my son is indeed home.
Oh, Happiness!
His stuff is everywhere and that's so beautiful. It's everywhere because it's no longer in Tennessee. He's been busy with job interviews, helping his sister with her school work, visiting his Brown-eyed Girl, and trying to figure out why his new phone is so horrible, so we've extended him grace on the clutter.
I don't care. It means he's HOME!
He's shared with me many things, like the fact that his last instructor charged a quarter for every time someone would say the granddaddy of all swear words. At the end of the 20 day class, the person with the highest grade point average would win the money.
Ty won with his 93.7 (the .7 earned it for him).
He went up to collect his prize and his instructor said, "Wait a minute! You've never had to pay anything!"
"I know. Pure profit."
=)
But he neglected to share with me other things and I discovered them for myself, like the fact that he was given the Honors Award for Academic Excellence because of his GPA. Humble man (and not so humble mom)! That one's for his grandma to read.
On his last blog post, he mentioned that he won't miss eating out of a box anymore. That one hurt my mama-heart! He won't have to.
Not if I can help it.
Oh, Happiness!
His stuff is everywhere and that's so beautiful. It's everywhere because it's no longer in Tennessee. He's been busy with job interviews, helping his sister with her school work, visiting his Brown-eyed Girl, and trying to figure out why his new phone is so horrible, so we've extended him grace on the clutter.
I don't care. It means he's HOME!
He's shared with me many things, like the fact that his last instructor charged a quarter for every time someone would say the granddaddy of all swear words. At the end of the 20 day class, the person with the highest grade point average would win the money.
Ty won with his 93.7 (the .7 earned it for him).
He went up to collect his prize and his instructor said, "Wait a minute! You've never had to pay anything!"
"I know. Pure profit."
=)
But he neglected to share with me other things and I discovered them for myself, like the fact that he was given the Honors Award for Academic Excellence because of his GPA. Humble man (and not so humble mom)! That one's for his grandma to read.
On his last blog post, he mentioned that he won't miss eating out of a box anymore. That one hurt my mama-heart! He won't have to.
Not if I can help it.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Tips from the Mouse
I've been realizing that there are things I've learned at Disney that will serve me for the rest of my life. Here are just a few:
* A smile really is the best defense. A smile that is genuine (and not condescending), will instantly put people at ease. This applies to all ages.
*Children are great to talk to and appreciate when others show interest in them. (I've always know this, but it was reinforced.) A child is much more willing to wait patiently for adults to finish a conversation if they have already been acknowledged with their own conversation.
*Talking to complete strangers doesn't have to be scary. There are rules of safety that apply here, of course. At my new job, I have no qualms with talking to patients or anyone else. This came in handy when calling for appointment confirmations.
*Showing true interest in someone can make their day magical.
* Always look eye. (Said in Karate Kid accent.)
*Don't interrupt. (What am I, seven? Why do I still struggle with this? Arrrgggh!) Even if you could finish their sentence for them, just let them finish.
* Sometimes your silence is much more important and golden than your clever/intelligent remarks. (See above.)
* Don't take someone's anger or impatience personally. You don't know the full story of their life, so you have no idea what they have been through or where they're coming from today. Extend grace for the unknown elements. (This may or may not apply to road rage. You decide!)
* Be playful. Again, make sure your timing is appropriate! (At Disney, it was almost always appropriate, especially with guests!)
* Safety first.
* Sometimes people don't want their problems solved. Sometimes, they just want to know someone is listening and understands.
And, straight from the Bible (but I personally learned so much about this through my Disney experience) . . .
*Love conquers all. When in doubt, choose to love.
* A smile really is the best defense. A smile that is genuine (and not condescending), will instantly put people at ease. This applies to all ages.
*Children are great to talk to and appreciate when others show interest in them. (I've always know this, but it was reinforced.) A child is much more willing to wait patiently for adults to finish a conversation if they have already been acknowledged with their own conversation.
*Talking to complete strangers doesn't have to be scary. There are rules of safety that apply here, of course. At my new job, I have no qualms with talking to patients or anyone else. This came in handy when calling for appointment confirmations.
*Showing true interest in someone can make their day magical.
* Always look eye. (Said in Karate Kid accent.)
*Don't interrupt. (What am I, seven? Why do I still struggle with this? Arrrgggh!) Even if you could finish their sentence for them, just let them finish.
* Sometimes your silence is much more important and golden than your clever/intelligent remarks. (See above.)
* Don't take someone's anger or impatience personally. You don't know the full story of their life, so you have no idea what they have been through or where they're coming from today. Extend grace for the unknown elements. (This may or may not apply to road rage. You decide!)
* Be playful. Again, make sure your timing is appropriate! (At Disney, it was almost always appropriate, especially with guests!)
* Safety first.
* Sometimes people don't want their problems solved. Sometimes, they just want to know someone is listening and understands.
And, straight from the Bible (but I personally learned so much about this through my Disney experience) . . .
*Love conquers all. When in doubt, choose to love.
Monday, September 13, 2010
A Night in Infamy
The day was planned for months and months!
Glenna stubbornly stood by her plan to attend Night of Joy when most of her friends decided to attend Rock the Universe, held on the same night. The reason was one group only - Family Force Five. She loves them!
Her friend Rachel, recently relocated to Tennessee, made plans to fly in for the concert. They planned outfits and accessories and considered it a double birthday celebration; Glenna's in July, Rachel's in August. At last, the big day arrived and we picked Rachel up from the airport! Himself and I were all set to get our groove on; from the back in the parent parking, of course. Glenna and Rachel joined their friends who decided at the last minute to come anyway.
Just before the concert started, the stage crew began to cover up the equipment. Clouds were definitely approaching, but we were hopeful that they would bypass us or miss us all together. The Park has an excellent weather system, so when they began to cover up the equipment, we dug out our ponchos.
It rained.
There was lightning.
We stood in a downpour for over an hour.
We kept getting reassuring messages (spiel!) that the concert was merely delayed. Eventually, however, we were disappointed by a force much stronger than the weather.
The Schedule.
Family Force Five came out on stage, covered in rain ponchos, and apologized for not being able to perform for us.
Glenna was crushed!
She enjoyed the rest of the evening with all of her friends, but it was still a pretty hard blow.
By the way, did you know that Night of Joy is the most hated theme night among cast members? Here are some facebook quotes from them:
"Night of Joy? You mean Night of Doom!"
"I'd rather work Grad Nite for 6 weeks straight than Night of Joy."
"I hate them. I'm ready to kill all of them."
"They're obnoxious as hell."
Yes, these are descriptions of a Christian event, and we were able to witness some of this while we were there. It's so heartbreaking that it has that reputation, but there it is.
I have glimmers of hope that I will not be behind in everything forever. Glenna and Rachel helped me attack the dishes that had been on the counter for days. Laundry is mostly done. I'm just trying to figure out my new "normal." I'm thankful to be home at night, but between work and Glenna's classes, I haven't seen a lot of home time yet. Still, last week was more unusual because of the holiday, our Rachel, and Night of Joy.
What will be the reasons next week?
Glenna stubbornly stood by her plan to attend Night of Joy when most of her friends decided to attend Rock the Universe, held on the same night. The reason was one group only - Family Force Five. She loves them!
Her friend Rachel, recently relocated to Tennessee, made plans to fly in for the concert. They planned outfits and accessories and considered it a double birthday celebration; Glenna's in July, Rachel's in August. At last, the big day arrived and we picked Rachel up from the airport! Himself and I were all set to get our groove on; from the back in the parent parking, of course. Glenna and Rachel joined their friends who decided at the last minute to come anyway.
Just before the concert started, the stage crew began to cover up the equipment. Clouds were definitely approaching, but we were hopeful that they would bypass us or miss us all together. The Park has an excellent weather system, so when they began to cover up the equipment, we dug out our ponchos.
It rained.
There was lightning.
We stood in a downpour for over an hour.
We kept getting reassuring messages (spiel!) that the concert was merely delayed. Eventually, however, we were disappointed by a force much stronger than the weather.
The Schedule.
Family Force Five came out on stage, covered in rain ponchos, and apologized for not being able to perform for us.
Glenna was crushed!
She enjoyed the rest of the evening with all of her friends, but it was still a pretty hard blow.
By the way, did you know that Night of Joy is the most hated theme night among cast members? Here are some facebook quotes from them:
"Night of Joy? You mean Night of Doom!"
"I'd rather work Grad Nite for 6 weeks straight than Night of Joy."
"I hate them. I'm ready to kill all of them."
"They're obnoxious as hell."
Yes, these are descriptions of a Christian event, and we were able to witness some of this while we were there. It's so heartbreaking that it has that reputation, but there it is.
I have glimmers of hope that I will not be behind in everything forever. Glenna and Rachel helped me attack the dishes that had been on the counter for days. Laundry is mostly done. I'm just trying to figure out my new "normal." I'm thankful to be home at night, but between work and Glenna's classes, I haven't seen a lot of home time yet. Still, last week was more unusual because of the holiday, our Rachel, and Night of Joy.
What will be the reasons next week?
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